why are autistic people creepy
5 min readwhy are autistic people creepy.
Autism/Asperger’s can make people with these diagnoses seem distancing and untrustworthy if their boundaries are unclear, but they deserve for these to be respected and honored.
At times it can be challenging to identify ableism when someone is reacting negatively, but it is necessary. Here are some effective approaches.
- They don’t communicate well
Autistic individuals often struggle with verbal communication, whether it be speaking at all or simply understanding what others are saying. Although autism spectrum disorder has now been removed from the DSM-5 manual of mental disorders, families still often need help understanding language issues associated with autism spectrum disorders.
Even when they can talk, autistic individuals sometimes repeat words or paraphrase what they’ve heard (a condition known as echolalia). Additionally, they may use nonsensical phrases that don’t fit with what their conversation partners are discussing – which can be very frustrating.
Neurotypicals might find these communication quirks disturbing or strange; they might assume an autistic person is trying to offend or cause discomfort – which may not always be the case! Many autistic people just want to hang out with their friends; unfortunately they lack the skills needed to know when it is acceptable for them to join conversations or ask permission before speaking up first.
- They don’t pay attention
Autism makes eye contact challenging or impossible at times during conversations, sometimes giving off the impression of not paying attention or not paying heed. But in truth they may just need more time to process what they’re hearing.
As they may not realize it, their behavior could cause others to react negatively and lead to frustration and anger among others as well as behavior that might be considered “creepy”.
Note that not all autistic people lack empathy; however, some find it more challenging to express it in social situations due to sensory issues and alexithymia – researchers have even found that people with autism tend to suffer more frequently from alexithymia than non-autistics and struggle more to comprehend and express their own emotions.
- They don’t think in terms of others
Autism affects those who take an overly literal approach to viewing the world around them and does not filter information according to social expectations, which may cause some people with the disorder not to understand why their words could offend someone and misinterpret the intentions of others.
Autistic individuals may find eye contact difficult or even painful, which might appear creepy to outsiders. When autistic people cannot make eye contact, this might give the appearance of being weird or bizarre to those observing them.
Reality, however, proves otherwise. Some autistic people can be extremely empathic and feel pain for others’ suffering when they witness it firsthand, yet may be unwilling to express this publicly due to being seen as inappropriate. Furthermore, many autistics don’t see themselves as part of an identity hierarchy and thus don’t automatically assign value or rank according to mainstream authority; which can be seen as disrespectful by those who benefit from such hierarchies being in place.
- They’re not sociable
One reason autistic people may appear creepy is due to their inability to understand social norms. An autistic individual may struggle with reading body language or picking up on nonverbal cues about when it’s okay for them to contact another individual; this can create difficulties in relationships as it’s hard for them to know whether someone wants them included in a discussion or not.
People on the spectrum often fail to appreciate how much something they say or do can bother others; for instance, they might not recognize that their scent might offend others; this is known as theory-of-mind issues, in which autistic individuals don’t realize that how others see them differs from how they view themselves.
More serious inappropriate behaviors have been recorded, including autistic people visiting websites that promote pedophilia, terrorist activities and other illegal activities that violate state or federal law. Such individuals can face very stringent punishment under such legislation.
- They’re withdrawn
People with autism tend to become immersed in their inner worlds, becoming preoccupied with one topic or engaging in repetitive actions (like rubbing their hands together or rocking back and forth) that repeat certain words or phrases over and over. This behavior, known as “stimming,” provides autistic individuals a way of managing sensory overload or uncomfortable situations while upsetting those around them.
Unfortunately, there have been cases in which autistic individuals pursue interests which are highly offensive or even illegal – such as child pornography and gathering weapons and explosives information – without realizing their conduct is inappropriate and how it might impact other people. They remain unaware that what they are doing might offend other people.
Autism affects each individual differently. While some behaviors listed above might seem unusual or disturbing, they don’t indicate anything wrong with your child; these characteristics may prove challenging at some point for all kids; eventually however, many will become better socialized as they grow older.
- They’re weird
People with autism often struggle to comprehend how others feel. They may seem preoccupied with themselves, engaging in self-serving behavior like pouring themselves drinks without asking if anyone else would like one, or consuming more food than is fair – giving the impression they’re creepy; but in truth it could simply be due to difficulty perceiving the emotions and thoughts of other people.
Autistic individuals may get in trouble for engaging in inappropriate behaviors that are beyond their control, such as visiting websites that contain child pornography or information on weapons and explosives despite knowing it’s illegal to access these websites; many autistics become entranced by them and become compelled to browse further and further.
Many autistics may not realize when their behavior is inappropriate. Some autistics also suffer from alexithymia, a difficulty with recognizing and describing emotions, which makes identifying their emotions challenging. Because of this difficulty they often respond logically when faced with situations that other people find overwhelming; sometimes their response will automatically go to worst-case scenario thinking.